Reflections: The World Just Got a Wee Bit Smaller!

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It was just another pile of mail, but it included exciting news.  CFCA sent  us sponsorship packets for Eri and Berdimon!  This filled my heart with joy!

Alex, Jimmy and Eri had jabbered away for hours on our trip to Mazatenango.  They happened to see each other at the Hentzen arrival and Eri passed the sweetest note to Alex.  Alex really wants to see Eri when we return to Guatemala three years from now.  So his wish has been granted.  We will be back for a reunion with Eri in 2014!

Josefina was the “SuperMom” who was so involved in the same day at Mazatenango.

Super Mom Josefina

She welcomed us to her house, which she shares with her sister, mother, and their children.  Berdimon is her sister’s son.  I felt a real call to help that family, and am so grateful that they will have the support of two “benefits” for the years ahead.

We got beautiful letters from each of these families.  I look forward to writing them back – and visiting in 3 years.  But in the meantime I know that the CFCA family is caring for these two families – as well as so many others.

So my heart is happy!

Refections: After 36 hours of Hope

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Kids are just kids. No matter their economic or social circumstances or the country they live in. This is certainly not an original thought, but one of the lessons I have relearned this summer.

I have been blessed to counsel at Hope Camp this week. This camp serves the underprivileged of Nashville. We have played games, swam, explored the creek, worshipped and prayed. Most important, we have laughed and talked. These kids remind me most of my very privileged teenage children.

Most of the counselors are considerably younger – 16 thru maybe 25. They are remarkably good with these kids, consistently kind, patient and loving. It is a blessing to watch them serve – a glimpse of Jesus and the little children.

This morning, the heat has broken a bit. Here’s to closing out camp with something less that. 95 degrees with 100% humidity! (certainly not a theological reflection, but from the heart!)

Reflections: How Much Space Do We Need

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This piece of art on the wall at the Room at the Inn headquarters touched my heart this week. Each leaf has a name – a Nashville homeless person who has passed away. So many leaves. But what truly touched my heart was when Wendy Smotherman explained that the tree gives hope to their participants because it reassures them their life will be remembered.

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Room at the Inn works hard to show the homeless they are valued and remembered. Isn’t that what we should do every day with everyone we meet! It’s so easy to pass people by without thinking. And we are taught to believe that we need our ‘space’. But what is the cost of that ‘space’?

So I leave you with a quote from psychologist June Singer: “The space between us, is it a space that separates us or a space that unites us?”

Reflections: Live Slow Enough

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I’ve been back home just over a week now, and normal life creeps in with its own force…  Can I remember to eat simply, as the Mayans do?  Can I remember the value of money – and how much hope that can provide in Guatemala?  Can I remember to savor every moment and every encounter with another human being?

Today’s devotional reading focused on slowing down to actually be part of life!  The crux is captured in this quote from Mark Nepo’s The Book of Awakening (which I heartily recommend):

“…. simply slow your thoughts to the pace of cracks widening, slow your heart to the pace of the earth soaking up rain, and wait for the freshness of the beginning to greet you….”

While that may feel very Zen, it spoke to my soul.  This “sabbatical summer” has taught me the value of the tiny moments in life.  I find great joy from watching the hummingbird approach the feeder.  I love being in the garden in the morning or late afternoon – to see the finches battle over their feeder or to the tomatoes beginning to ripen.  And the chance to spend quiet, little moments with Steve, Kasey and Alex.

That is the way I approached Guatemala – by accident.  We were blessed with 3 great guides from CFCA who managed all the details.  And the country around me was so foreign that I could give up my “need to be in charge”.  So I didn’t worry about our schedule.  Instead I relaxed and opened myself to the experience.    I reached out in love.  I tried to speak my fractured Spanish, but truly communicated best with a smile.  I remember intentionally trying to look in the eyes of the people I met to connect as deeply as I could in a brief moment.

In doing so, I found myself in a very thin place.  In the Celtic tradition, thin places are where the boundary between heaven and earth is very thin.  As a very intuitive person, that feels like a deep feeling of the presence of the Holy Spirit.  As I was surrounded by those lovely Guatemalans, I deeply felt the presence of God in this place.

Now, back home, it’s so easy to get caught up in the pressures of life… My morning had not started auspiciously, but rather with the tedium of cleaning up after a dog and a coffeemaker that decided to overflow.  But the reminder to “live slow enough” was just what I needed to turn my day back around so I could focus on the small moments of grace.

And welcome rain has just come – needed rain.  So now I must “slow my heart to the pace of the earth soaking up the rain.”

A picture is worth a thousand words… so 5,000 pictures are worth countless words

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How could I forget the pictures??  Jim and Emmie didn’t… they had pictures scattered all around the Gathering Space this morning and it was great to share our stories with the greater Woodmont family!  We walked to Clay about a Wednesday night to tell our stories and show our pictures.  And he liked the idea of having some of the youth do the offering at worship… details TBD.

In the meantime, if you need more pictures, check out Jim’s Smugmug site.   I have also enjoyed (and downloaded pictures for this blog) from Nicky and Natalie’s facebook albums. If you have pictures posted somewhere, please add a link as a comment here, so we can all enjoy!

Editor note:  I figured out that the FIRST time you make a comment, it goes to me to moderate.  That protects us from spam… once I have approved you once, you can add comments whenever you want…   just a bit of protection – but don’t be dismayed if your initial comment(s) don’t show up immediately!

June 28: Smiles, hugs and tears as we leave our new found friends

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We left our hotel at 7:15, after loading our luggage onto the van.  We walked a couple of blocks to the project.  We were greeted by balloons and beautiful decorations.  The CFCA staff was at the entrance.  The tables were surrounded by scholarship students (high school aged) who had left room for our kids to sit with them.  I went over to greet two small ninos – and immediately a staff members asked if I was Katie.  (The day before we had asked for several more children to sponsor, and without realizing it I was talking to one of them).  We sat down at the tables.  After greetings and a beautiful prayer service led by the scholarship students (some of which had to be up really early that morning because they traveled a couple of hours), Katie was called up front to meet Angel, her sponsored boy.

Katie and Angel, her sponsored child. Photo by Jim.

Lee greets his sponsored child. Photo by Natalie.

(Angel has significant medical issues – Katie had requested a special needs sponsored child).  In quick succession Lee met an adorable girl, Kasey and Natalie met Cindy (dressed in a strawberry shortcake jacket) and Alex met Manuel (five years old and a soccer player!).  My eyes filled with tears and my heart swelled.

Manuel and Alex share breakfast. Photo by Natalie.

It was such a joy to watch my kids rise to this occasion, which was so uncomfortable just a few days before when we met our sponsored children at the CFCA center.  And it was a joy to know these kids would be well cared for by the CFCA family.  In a few short days I have grown to have great trust in both their hearts and the amazing job they do in caring for families that are almost forgotten.

The newly sponsored families joined us for breakfast and I wedged my self between Manuel/Alex and Cindy/Kasey/Natalie (even summoning up the courage to ask the armed “Department of Tourism” to move over one seat!). What a roller coaster it must have been for the families that have found they have new sponsors in the past 24 hours!  Excellent translators filled in the gaps, but all the kids did remarkable jobs communicating with their sponsored children!  Alex has come a long way with 2 years of Spanish in the past 7 days!

Cindy loves pink! She is Kasey and Natalie's new sponsored child. Photo by Jim.

After breakfast, the staff quickly broke down the tables so we could use the same space to talk.  We created a circle of chairs.  Several scholarship kids spoke of what CFCA has meant to them.  Then, slowly, a discussion emerged on a range of topics from what they are studying in school to what they like to do on vacation.

Then the music came on  and dancing broke out.

Amanda and friend dancing. Photo by Natalie.

The kids seemed to enjoy each other.

Katie and I pulled out bags of toys we had toted all week.  Katie had silly bands and pencils for the scholarship kids and I had small toys (frisbees, bubbles, jump ropes) for the younger newly sponsored children.

Fun breaks out.. notice how Taylor looks over the Mayans! Photo by Natalie.

Then came time for good byes.  Chico thanked the staff for a wonderful morning.  Then he asked Jim to speak.  Jim spoke of the lessons he learned, and his gratitude that our youth learned them at such an early age.  He introduced “Take a Little With You”, the song we sing every Youth Sunday to send off our Seniors.  This song, written by Thom Schuyler, felt very appropriate in this situation as well.  Our moist eyes turned to tears as we shared that song  – we got through it but barely!  After Brenda translated it, I asked for the floor.

... and his heart grew three sizes that day.....

I introduced the story of the Grinch who Stole Christmas.  When I paused for translation, Kasey asked “where are you going with that?”… When I concluded that my heart had grown three sizes in Guatemala, just like the Grinch, Russell gave me a huge smile and put his arm around me.  At least to our group, my point was made.  The people of Guatemala have shown me a magnificent, unquestioning love that I did nothing to deserve but “show up.”  For me, they have been the truest reflection of Christ’s love that I have seen.

After tearful farewells, we said good bye to the beautiful people we shared the week with.  They left indelible impressions on our hears and minds.  Now it is ours to figure out how we reflect that love to the world around us.

God is with us always….

As I write this, we are in final descent to U.S. soil.  The hardest part begins.  How do I live up to this example I have been shown by these humble people?

Lord, show me the way!

June 27: Exploring the “touristy” side in historic Antigua

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How do you thank the man who had the vision to start this all? Photo by Jim.

The kitchen was closed that morning, a well deserved break after feeding 200.  But that meant that not even coffee was ready!  But as we loaded our luggage near the bug, Bob and Jacob Hentzen were waiting to say good bye.  Bob is friendly, humble and kind.  He appears somewhat uncomfortable with the “hoopla”, but his eye light up when he speaks with or hugs the children.  I thanked him for getting up early to greet us.  But he has been walking from 4 a.m. to 4 p.m. (or later) for 1 1/2 years, so he graciously said it was late for him.  He left us to walk down the hill to mass.

Without benefit of coffee, we loaded onto the bus.  It was hard to say goodbye to the center that was our home for the week.  As we crossed San Lucas, there were many signs of last night’s parade.  Though we say clean up crews out already, there were still many bedraggled flowers and signs on the roadside.

About an hour later, we arrived at a lovely roadside restaurant, with sort of a Swiss chalet look.  when we sat down, we were handed menus for the first time!  We struggled a bit, since this was a skill we hadn’t developed yet – thought we had gotten pretty good at brief conversations with adorable children – but everyone seemed happy with what we ordered.  While the prices seemed high because the quetzal is worth about 7 cents, the breakfast was about $7 each (and paid for by CFCA).

We headed on towards Antigua.

Kasey and Natalie at the museum. Photo from Natalie's camera!

We stopped a little ways outside of town and visited a coffee and music museum.  The exhibits were interesting, particularly as a woman demonstrated ancient Mayan musical instruments.  We sampled the coffee and had the first chance to shop in real stores!

After the final drive into Antigua, we let everyone “loose” in the city center four four hours, with cautions to stay in groups.  This was the first true freedom for the kids.

Historic church on the main square in Antiqua. Photo by Natalie.

Antigua is a beautiful historic town — and a bit touristy.    The square is lined with a great cathedral and many shops and restaurants.  I had fallen in love with Quatemalan textiles over the past week and it was hard to chose which would go home with me.  I had already purchased scarves and an embroidered piece in San Antonio, so I added an embroidered Mayan calendar and an embroidered blouse to my bag.  I bought a bright necklace for my mother and was disappointed when I realized that it would be hard for her to put on and take off due to the clasp.  I was tempted to buy a shirt for Steve, but fearful it would not be as charming for him.  The arcades of Guatemalan merchandise were dense with sales people (and short on shoppers).  ”I give you a good price” (spoken in English) was the most common sentence spoken.  My negotiating skills improved as I paid half the asking price for the Mayan calendar!

Jim, Emmie, Katie and I had been together when we ran into Gloria, Joy, Amanda and Millie.  We sat down for lunch and enjoyed the first glass on wine in a week (25 quetzals – about $2.50).  We tried to order a second round, but they only had one more glass, so we shared it.

Emmie in Antigua. Photo by Natalie.

Katie and I shopped a bit more.  I loved the market baskets the natives use and finally found a booth of them in an open air market.  what a deal at 40 quetzals or about $6 (and I couldn’t bring myself to negotiate with that sweet elderly woman to save one or two dollars!)  Katie found a beautiful gift for her parents.

Manuel, Brenda and Chico were always waiting patiently for us. Photo by Natalie.

We rejoined the group about 5:30 that afternoon.  Everyone seemed happy – and a bit grateful to have split up for awhile!  Chico suggested dinner at McDonald’s and the kids were thrilled.  Kasey asked for more quetzals and went down the street to buy a striped jacket  - that style was very popular with our kids.

Alex and Natalie sporting their striped jackets. Photo from Natalie's camera.

(Katie laughed because it’s the same they that was popular when she was in junior high!)  Alex spent his last quetzals on a “has to be fake because it’s so cheap” soccer jersey at the open air market.

We piled onto the bus again and headed to a hotel.  We knew it was small (we would be the only guests) and 2 blocks from the project we would visit the next morning.  It was unlike any hotel I have stayed in.  Two buildings with a courtyard in between.  The girls were in one building; the boys in another.  Most of the girls (except Joy and Gloria) were on the second floor at the top of a narrow staircase.  One room had 5 beds, one had 3, one had a double.  With a couch in the center and 3 bnaths it could have been nice, but the smell of mold was prevalent.  With some broken windows to let the bugs in it was rustic at best, but it was home for the next 12 hours (and much nicer than the guest house that Katie stayed in for the Haitian trip!)

We all met in a small area near the boys’ rooms.  I asked everyone to share their trip highlight reel (ESPN style).  It was great to hear the stories.  Each had a meaningful story to share.  The stories created a colorful picture of love – and every significant part of our trip got mentioned by someone as a favorite!

Then we split up to write notes to Brenda, Manuel and Chico  - who had been such wonderful hosts for the week.  The girls retreated to our “suite”.  We laughed and shared stories as we wrote our notes (and tried to protect the notes from the drops of condensation that fell from the ceiling!)  Nicky created fun “folders” for the notes from construction paper that Milly had brought along.

We settled into our somewhat damp rooms for the night.  Again, I was grateful for the ear plugs that Jim had brought along (from The Bridge supply!).  There were fewer animal noises but they were replaced by city noises.  Those ear plugs made all the difference in getting me the sleep I needed that week!

June 26: An 8,000 mile homecoming

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What a day it was!

The CFCA Center was abuzz with preparations for the big event that evening.  We had a lovely morning prayer let by the San Hermano Pedro staff.  We sang a beautiful song about giving our day over to God – if only I could do that.  My intentions are good but I always try to grab back control!

Then we loaded onto the bus for breakfast.  Since the kitchen was busy preparing for dinner for 200, we ate at the Hotel Toliman

Ever faithful Chico and Manuel at breakfast. Photo by Natalie.

in San Lucas.  There was a beautiful view of the lake.  On the way in, we met a group from Shreveport Louisiana that had been on a mission trip staying in the hotel.  They had created an evangelical drama they were performing in towns around the lake.   It was interesting sharing notes.  And the breakfast was delicious!

It began to rain as we left breakfast.  We drove by the CFCA Center to pick up jackets and headed to Santiago Atitlan.  This is the project our first sponsored child, Jacoba, lives in.  I realized that as I noticed the the traditional clothes Jacoba wears match those of the villagers.

We were greeted at the CFCA Center by the project director and families that would be part of the celebration later that day.  I found out later there are 13 or 14 thousand sponsored families in this area,, and the project is lead by Father John of the San Lucas Mission who led mass that evening.  It was also great to see the translator who brought Jacoba to us on Sponsor Day!

We went into the village to a small house on one of the main streets.  We squeezed into the small house and heard the story of the small boy, Jacobo that lived there.  He is being raised by a single mom with the help of a grandmother and uncles.  After telling the story, Brenda asked if we knew who the sponsor is.  Of course we did not, but she quickly replied it’s Russell.

Russell meets Jacobo, his new sponsored child. Photo by Natalie.

(That morning, Russell had asked to meet a child to adopt).  It was a magical, unexpected moment.  Russell’s face lit up.  Both he and Jacobo were unsure what to do, but we encouraged them to hug and the tension eased.  The uncle and grandmother beamed (Jacobo’s mother was at church – I wonder when she found out?).  His uncle dug around to find woven bracelets to give each of us, and a beautiful beaded bracelet for Russell.  We were all emotional and tears flowed.  Jim’s camera clicked away at a dizzying pace.  Broken Spanish was spoken all around with beams of happiness.

As we left, Russell and I promised to come see Jacobo in three years.  By this time it was crystal clear to me that this tradition needed to be continued.  I had promised Emmie and the freshmen that I would organize a trip back to Guatemala in 2014.  I hope that Alex, Lee, and Russell will each be with me!

We visited another house in what Brenda referred to as a “suburb”.  Tucked in a rural area, we found several houses.

Chelsea speaks the universal language of bubbles. Photo by Jim.

We walked along a muddy path to a home tucked under a tree.  We were greeted by a mother and two daughters.  We could see a man bathing nearby and realized when he came around the house that was the father!  We pulled out a bag of bubbles from my backpack and Chelsea shared them with a cluster of neighborhood children as we chatted with the family.  We left those bubbles with the sponsored children who were excited!

We went to lunch at a beautiful restaurant/hotel on the lake, Posada de Santiago.

This sign clearly reflected an "American" sensibility. Photo by Natalie.

The building was made of wood and stone with great lake views.  We were served a delicious family style meal of chicken, beef, guacamole, vegetables, rice, beans, tortillas and cheese with a delicious hibiscus tea.  While we had had plenty to eat all week, the Mayan people are considerably smaller than Americans, and portions were generally smaller as well.  This was a huge American sized portion meal.  After gorging ourselves on the first course, we were startled to see dessert served.  We had only seen dessert at one meal – a cake served to honor Brenda’s birthday.  But someone most of us found room for the brownie and peach ice cream!  The place had the most ‘American’ feel of any place we had seen, and we did have the chance to meet the owner, David Glanville, who built it with his mother 21 years ago.

After lunch, we went to the church in the center of town.  It was the day of Corpus Christi.  As Protestants, we were unfamiliar with this, and I made the mistake of confusing it with Christopher Columbus – a rather different event for Central America!

The Corpus Christi parade. Photo by Jim.

Instead, Corpus Christi celebrates the body of Christ.  In the bus we were caught by the parade through town.  It appeared the entire town was part of the parade.  The priest and altar boys carried the elements under a gold canopy through town.  We waited maybe 15 minutes in the bus blocked by the parade.  As it passed by, Manuel found a way to manuever through town to the church.

Beautiful flowers decorated the church in Santiago Atitlan for Corpus Christi. Photo by Natalie.

We walked through the beautiful church, which was decorated with beautiful flowers as part of the holiday.  Then we entered a courtyard next door.  In one corner was the room where the priest Stanley Francis Rother was killed by the Guatemalan army as part of the civil war in the 1980s. Brenda told us the story of his ministry and death.   I was appalled how little I knew about this war that happened not only in my life but in my adulthood.  As we left the courtyard, the priests and white canopy were entering the church.  What a beautiful sight to see!

We visited one more home.  As the rain fell, we walked up a street too narrow for the bus and turned down an even narrower path.  We arrived at a small house with two girls and a young boy.  After hearing their story, Jim asked them if they had any bracelets to sell (that was their primary form of income).  The mother whipped out her loom and inventory of bracelets.

A sponsored family who let us visit their home. Photo by Nicky.

She quickly sold all her inventory – including two she finished while we waited!  I pulled a jump rope out of my backpack.  We had found earlier in the week that the children didn’t seem to know what to do with a jump rope, but this girl learned quickly!  Even in the narrow confines of their small house where we took shelter from the rain, she managed to jump rope.  I earned a great big hug for a $1 jump rope!

It was still raining as we left the house and went down a very steep, slick “road” (more of a path than a road by American standards).  Katie fell, prompting Jim, Emmie and I to be very cautious.  Brenda even took off her sandals!  Back on the bus, we headed back to our home away from home, the CFCA Center.

We had a few minutes to change clothes into the t-shirts they had given us the night before.  It was still raining hard and we were not sure what to expect.   This was the big event of the week for CFCA.  They were welcoming Bob and Christina Hentzen back to San Lucas.  Bob and Christina had recently completed Walk2gether, a 8,000 mile 1 1/2 year walk to raise awareness of CFCA and increase sponsorships.  But ongoing rain was clearly changing the plans.  Things seemed to be changing so fast that even Brenda didn’t know what to expect.

When Brenda got the word, we loaded onto the bus.  Manuel drove with a purpose we hadn’t seen before.  The road was decorated with balloons, flags, flowers, signs, kites, Mayan paths and more.  Each CFCA Quatemalan region had been responsible for decorating part of the road and one cultural performance representing one of the countries Bob had walked through.

The road was also lined with people in many places, despite the rain.  Many were protected only with sheets of plastic thinner than trash bags.  Many wore the same t-shirt we did, because each sponsored child in San Lucas had been given one (some 12,000 sponsored children).  It was an inspiring sight!

After climbing what seemed like more than 3.1 miles, we arrived at a metal “Butler” building.  There was a precarious awning in front, protecting many people from rain.  Brenda told us Bob was already there.  We stood at the back, but a staff member ushered us through the crowd to the very front.  The seas parted… we were greeted as welcome celebrities with hugs and kisses and manymuchas gracias.  At the front, Bob Hentzen himself greeted each of us individually.  It was totally overwhelming to be greeted by strangers with such love.  As we stood in front, chairs suddenly appeared and we sat on the front row, ahead of staff and sponsored families.

Bob Hentzen greets the crowd. Photo by Jim.

A somewhat (for us) confusing presentation began.  It didn’t help that I was on the far edge against the wall, with a large speaker and flower arrangement blocking my view – along with a clown at the side of the stage holding a sign!  Gifts were given to Bob.  He and his wife spoke.  There were several cultural performances.  The plan was for a performance from each country in reverse order, so it ended with Guatemala (where the trip actually began).  But it was hard to get performers on and off the stage due to the crowd.

This is love.... Photo by Jim.

Four young girls sang for Venezuela.  Since they were crowded near the front, we invited them to sit on our laps and had instant friend.  Their adorable smiles won us over with love.

We had maximum sound and limited visibility.  But the excitement was contagious.  After several dances, songs and a white faced clown on stilts that couldn’t maneuver well on the damp floors, the end came abruptly.  It was getting too late and time for the crowd to move on.

Christina Hentzen, sprinkled with confetti, thanks the crowd. Photo by Jim.

After another round of hugs and thanks from many as we left the building (and had to say good bye to those adorable girls), we climbed back onto the bus.  It was still raining as we headed downhill.  At the major intersection heading into San Lucas, a crowd awaited.  There was a stage and a band.  The caravan stopped, and Bob and Christina waked across another Mayan path.  Bands played and the people cheered.  We moved with the crown until suddenly Brenda appeared and asked us to jump into the bus.  I have no idea how Manuel navigated around the crowds, but the bus appeared on the other side of the intersection!

We started across San Lucas.  The streets were lined with crowds, despite the ongoing rain.  Everyone waved.  Some had flags and signs.  I don’t know if those on the street had any idea who that bus-full of white faced people were, but they waved and smiled at us anyway!  In a few spots, the bus slowed enough that we could “high five” the crowd, which delighted Joy!

Throughout, Manuel honked the horn in a constant beat.  Brenda explained this was traditional for a parade.

Rain did not deter the crowds from greeting our bus! Photo by Jim.

The ten minute ride across town took more like 20 or 30 minutes.  As we climbed the final hill, flags stretched across the street.  WE must have had the tallest vehicle, because they caught on the luggage rack on top.  CFCA staff jumped out to pull down some and slide others over.  A few minutes later, a woman and her son help flags across the streets with bamboo poles.  They lifted them as we passed – a simple and effective solution!

We were just a few vehicles away from the entrance to the CFCA Center and fireworks were erupting when Manuel stopped and Brenda gave us the go ahead to jump out.  We jointed the throng running up the street to the center.  The sky was filled with light and smoke.  There was an energy in the air – a combination of joy, love and celebration.  Later, Emmie described this somewhat chaotic scene as one of her favorite moments of the trip.

The crowd surged to the gym for mass.  The townspeople ringed the stands.  Father John waited at the altar.  Banners strung with twinkle lights arched across the ceiling and yet another Mayan path lead to the altar.  We took seats in the center as we had been instructed, feeling again unworthy of being “special”.  The air had gotten cold, so several of us darted back to our nearby rooms for jackets.

After a few minutes, the CFCA staff filled the seats around us.  And Bob, Christina and their son Jacob entered. Mass began.

The crowd entered to celebrate mass. Photo by Jim.

Despite Father John’s efforts to “clue us in”, it was hard to follow the service, as we are unfamiliar with both Catholic worship style and couldn’t follow the language well.  (Our understanding of Spanish had increased every day, but not enough to follow Mass.)  It was fun to see Chico sine in the choir and lead part of the worship.  Apparently he grew up very involved in his own Catholic church.  We did rally when Father John asked us to pass the peace of Christ – that we understood!

Due to the late hour, the crowd of locals thinned as the mass continued.  There were few at the end when we left the gym for dinner.  Amanda was not feeling well, so we brought her 7 up and crackers.  Even though they were preparing to serve dinner for 200 from a small kitchen, Brenda retrieved crackers for us with a smile.

We sat at a table reserved for Grupo Woodmont, right in front of the stage.  With amazing speed, 200 plates of chicken, rice and vegetables arrived.  Brenda came to sit down with use.  She was obviously somewhat disappointed that her mother and daughter could not come because of the rain.  However Manuel brought his smiling daughter to meet each of us!

After dinner, the presentations began again.  I was grateful that our youth jumped up to offer to clear the tables and wash dishes.  It was wonderful to see our American youth serving these lovely Guatemalans!

There were gifts for Bob.  He spoke, thanking the staff.  There were beautiful hand crafted gifts for each of the country directors that were present.  And a somewhat lengthy (!) video celebrated the beginning of the walk from the CFCA Center to the Guatemalan border.

After a long day, we headed to our rooms to pac.  We were all exhausted, but leaving at 6:30 the next morning for Antiqua.

June 25: Soccer (aka Futbol) transcends all language barriers

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In the morning, we met for prayer led by Natalie on the grounds of the Bambu Hotel, then headed into for a breakfast buffet.  The highlight was the tamales — yum!  Then we were off to a sporting event with high school age “scholarship students”.  The staff and youth greeted us with fire crackers and hand made wooden noisemakers.

Proudly sporting the soccer uniforms that CFCA provided. Photo by Jim.

They had organized a soccer tournament complete with uniforms and trophies.  The boys took the field first.

Alex was determined to win this game. Photo by Jim.

Alex’s competitive spirit kicked in and they narrowly won.  Then the two predominantly Woodmont female teams played each other.  Nicky was the competitive one this time and pulled out a big win.  Then the boys played the CFCA staff.  During the second boys game, we pulled out the $2 in plastic bats and wiffle balls I had brought along.  Kasey and Natalie turned years of softball practice into a multicultural wiffle ball game.  Interestingly, only one opf the Guatemalan girls knew the ruls of baseball, but that made all the difference as she was able to help explain the rules in Spanish.

Natalie and her teammates celebrate a good play! Photo by Jim.

Meanwhile, Katie and three boys enjoyed a Guatemalan round of frisbee.

Chico decided to take us to a pool to cool off and take showers.  We were 70 km  from the coast at a much lower elevation.  It was much warmer than than San Lucas and within the area at risk of malaria.  We traveled into town by the place we went to was hosting a party so we couldn’t come in.  I tried to tell Chico we would be fine without a pool/shower, but he scrambled to find another pool.  He talked to our hotel, Bambu, who agreed to let us swim.

The slide at the Bambu provided great fun for all! Photo by Jim.

We all loved it – even Chico and Manuel got in the pool and it felt great.  Hopefully this is the only time I will swim protected by armed police, because the Department of Tourism was still at our side!

Sports and pop culture bring us together in San Antonia Suchitepequez. Photo by Jim.

We climbed back into the bus and headed back to meet the scholarship kids for lunch.  Lunch was delicious flank steak, pasta, frijoles, grilled onions and tortillas for about 50 of us.  The kids had become increasingly adept at talking and there was much laughter from the girls end of the table.  (I heard later they were talking about pop culture – which transcends countries!)  They awarded trophies to the winning teams (ours), which made me a bit uncomfortable.  At the end we took a huge group photo of all the kids and staff.  Everyone wanted to be in it!  As we left they give us adorable decorated placques and embroidered cloths to remember the day!

After a two hour ride back to the center, we had some time to relax.  Katie, Emmie and I had our first alcohol of the week – and that beer tasted GREAT!.  Chico walked by and we told him we had a few questions, so he summoned  Brenda.  An hour later, we were much more knowledgeable about CFCA.  They are developing a great sustainability program to encourage self sufficiency and also developing a micro credit program.  They do NOT discriminate based on religion or race.  I continue to grow in my admiration of this program.  Their values are clear and they live them out.  But my dream of sponsoring a member of Josefina’s (Super Mom) were crushed – Chico told me that Mario was sponsored.  Of course that is a blessing, but I wanted to be the one!

After a dinner of pizza, we watched a video on the history of CFCA.  And we talked briefly with the kids about ways to support CFCA when we get home.

It’s night (11 p.m.) and I’m finally caught up in my journal!  Tomorrow will be a great celebration as Bob Hentzen returms to the San Lucas Center.  Time for a good night’s sleep.  To God be the glory!

June 24: Parades through Mazatenango

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Friday was a festival of love..  After prayer that Nicky lead and breakfast, we climbed into the bus for a two hour drive to Mazatenango.  We stopped once at a nice service station, giving each of us a chance to explore Guatemalan snacks again!

When we arrived in town. we waited a few minutes on the side of the road for a CFCA staff member.  When she climbed into the bus, we drove another 2 or 3 blocks and were told to get off the bus.  We could see a small band emerge from a building and a few people clustered at the side of the road.  We were surprised to have a “welcome party”… this was billed as our day of service, so we expected just some training on how to “pass out the benefit.”  So as we turned the corner we were amazed to see crowds of people lining the narrow streets.  They cheered as we approached and waves signs of welcome, each hand made.  The band struck up and we walked several blocks together.  The band marched behind us, but we somewhat awkwardly led the parade.  There were even firecrackers to greet us!

The costumed children of Mazatenango all invited us to dance! Photo by Jim

Around one corner, we found the local CFCA center.  Flags were draped across the street to welcome us and the street was lined with palm fronds.  At the entrance to the center, stood about 20 children in costumes and masks.  We were greeted, music started, and each of the costumed children invited one of us to dance – surrounded by the CFCA staff and the sponsored families.  The dances always last long enough to be a bit uncomfortable for us.  I was dancing with an adorable pirate who kept adjusting his mask so he could see – but later in the day I couldn’t even recognize him.

We were greeted with more words of welcome then ushered into the courtyard where many chairs and a stage were set up.  Each member of the local staff introduced him/herself, including the man who “keeps the place clean.”

The one, the only, "Elevator Man" .. photo by Natalie

We enjoyed a series of performances.  The first was “Elevator Man” — much more contemporary and a little racier than we saw from the younger sponsored children!  There were also traditional and modern dances, all genuine and sweet, but frankly they were starting to run together!   In the midst, we were asked to serve ourselves fruit from a large buffet.  We were embarrassed to eat in front of these people, and delighted when each of them were served heaping bowls of fruit as well.

Jimmy surrounded by new found friends! Photo by Natalie

We were all sitting together in a section right in front of the stage with the “best view” of the performances, but segregated from the rest.  Some children came close.  I invited Maria Luisa to sit beside me.  Jimmy Thomas was at the back and soon surrounded by a cluster of children.  I admire his gift and desire to interact with these children.

The CFCA staff brought in a reporter, who asked to interview the sponsors.  Jim and Amanda were both interviewed.  We find it shocking that our visit was a newsworthy event!  But we were delighted to find out that the reporter was a former sponsored child.  Clearly, this program is changing lives!

Joy and Millie watch, while the reporter interviews Amanda. Photo by Jim.

When the performances ended, we were asked to load “the benefit” onto the truck to move to another center.  I was at the back of the group, so among the last to leave the room and found myself surrounded by people who wanted to touch me, to greet me, to thank me, to hug me, or to have a picture taken with me.  Cell phones emerged for pictures.  I did my best to greet these people, always feeling inadequate.

We loaded the truck with goods and were ushered onto our bus.   Several of the CFCA people were on the bus with us for this leg.  As we drove, they began singing a song.  As the finished, we answered with a “Thom” song – one of the best gifts we can share.  This back and forth continued as we shared songs we love.  We drove through the country awhile and arrived at another street where the bus stopped to let us out.  Again, people waited but we thought the “fuss” was over and the “work” had begun.

Max and Taylor walk along the Mayan pathway. Photo by Jim

Instead, we turned another corner and found many people waiting for us.  We walked with the crowd down one block and as we turned, Brenda instructed us to “walk on the path.”  Similar to the Mayan prayer, this was an area covered with flower petals, leaves, grains and other natural objects.  It was beautiful and went the length of a block …. turned…. and went another half block to the entrance of the center!

Jim Thomas and I lagged behind this time and found ourselves at the entrance in a circle of people four or five deep.  Again, they each wanted to greet us, hug us, touch us.  We were treated like rock stars but were very uncomfortable in that situation.  As we entered the packed room, the large crowd erupted with applause and cheers – for Jim and I ?!?!?!?  It was totally overwhelming.  While I am grateful for the thanks, we each feel it’s not at all necessary and intimidating in many ways.  Even those of our group that ARE sponsors (and most of the Woodmont youth are not at this point) feel like we do so little for these people but are showered with gratitude.  The emotion was overwhelming and brought both Jim and I to tears as we sat at the seats waiting for us at a long table.

Emmie enjoying that festivities! Photo by Jim.

Super Mom, Josefina, both greeted us and welcomed us to her home. Photo by Jim

Our group was seated at the end of a long table, nearest the stage.  From the stage, we were again greeting “with great affection”, or at least that is how Brenda always translates it for us.  This time one of the mothers, Josefina, spoke as well.  Children danced.  The first group of dancers was lead by a boy dressed only in white cloth wrapped on his loins and an animal skin draped on his back, holding a bull head.  Later we found out this was Josefina’s son.

The mothers danced as well – led again by Josefina who is clearly a force in this community.  Then we were fed lunch.  I have no idea how they managed to do this, but they served the several hundred people gathered there a meal of chicken, rice and tortillas.  We were served first, and again uncomfortable, until more plates emerged.  Needless to say this lunch took quite awhile.  Our Woodmont children began to interact with other children in the community.

Jimmy receives this hand made gift from a sponsored child Photo by Jim

After lunch there were more performances – songs, dances and poems.  During one, the children gave each of us a beautiful woven piece.  The textiles we have seen are breathtaking and we will cherish these remembrances.

The monthly "benefit" is detailed here and ranges from food and soap to brooms and towels. In each area, the families are part of the decision on what to include in the benefit. Photo by Jim

After the performances, it was time for “the benefit”  We unloaded the truck and carefully organized the items.  There was rice, sugar, cooking oil, pasta, laundry detergent, a broom, a towel, toothpaste, bar soap, dish soap and “nutracea.”.  Nutracea is a mix produced by other CFCA families.  Mixed with water it is a nutritious drink — produced and consumed by CFCA families.  I love that.  CFCA is working hard to increase the sustainable benefits, so families can slowly gain their independence.

CFCA staff verifies each family is eligible, before they receive the benefit. Photo by Jim

The process was well orchestrated.  Families were called forward by name.  They each brought a basket or a bag to collect their benefit in.  They showed ID or thumb prints to verify identity.  Then they each went in a circle to take the items from our youth.  Teach was gracious and friendly.  They process took a LONG time, but everyone waited patiently.  The kids enjoyed “serving” those who had served them!

Kasey passes out the benefit to a sponsored family. Photo by Jim.

Our group and Josefina's family in front of her house Photo by Jim.

Then we headed to visit homes.   Our group split in half, and I went with the half who visited Super Mom Josefina’s house first.  We were greeted by handmade “Bienvenidos” signs and another Mayan welcome path.  Josefina lives in her sister’s home, with their mother.  There is a small courtyard in the front which serves as the kitchen.  Behind that there are two long narrow rooms.  The structure is solid by Guatemalan standards, made of cinder blocks.  Josefina’s room is in the back.  Two beds, a table stacked with the benefit and a shrine, and several small stools fill the space.  As she nursed her youngest, Josefina spoke quickly thanking us for our sponsorship again and again.  She proudly showed us the things CFCA had provided her in the 14 months she has been part of the program – blanket, pots and pans, and a large plastic storage bin.  Her gratitude was overwhelming.

Handmade sign posted in front of Josefina's house. Photo by Jim.

This woman is a force to be reckoned with.  She is a single Mom who also volunteers her time at the CFCA center on the Mom’s team.  She is self assured, practical and strong.  She is nursing her 2 1/2 year old, and raising a 10 year old sponsored daughter and another son about 12 years old.  Her sister has one son, Mario, who Alex spoke with.  They share this small but pristine house with their mother as well.  It’s hard to be sure because we were traveling with an entourage, but I think 3 women and four children live in that house.   Josefina was so gracious to us – demonstrating a hospitality that would make any Southerner proud.

Then we traveled to another house tucked in the woods.  This single mom with one son was borrowing the land for the house made of corrugated metal.  This one room, dirt floored house was heart wrenching.  Yet someone had carefully decorated the external walls with palm fronds… but the conditions were heart stopping.  This family had just received their first benefit.  I am grateful because the sponsorship will significantly improve their standard of living.

From there, we loaded up on the bust, returned the local staff to the center, and headed to the hotel.  We didn’t really know what to expect, but it was a beautiful hotel.  While it was right on a noisy highway, the grounds and pool were beautiful.  Despite the rain falling, we used the little time we had to cool off in the pool.  There was even a long circular slide that was FAST — and I was brave enough to slide down twice!

We quickly dressed, loaded the bus, and headed back to the CFCA Center.  We were greeted again by the staff and children, but the crowd was smaller in the evening.  We enjoyed 3 more cultural performances, including a heartfelt skit called “The Final Kiss.”  Then we were invited inside for a dinner of Big Mac and french fries.  The kids were THRILLED with the food.  We watched a slide show of Bob Hentzen’s walk.  AFter dinner the gracious staff thanked us again for our visit.

Most of the evening, Jimmy and Alex were huddles with several of the Guatemalan kids.  They appeared to be in animated conversation.  I was so proud of Alex’s ability to use his two years of Spanish to get to know these kids.  (and Jimmy’s example made all the difference.)

After that, the staff handed each of us a beautiful momento of our day.  A woven fan was decorated with a picture of our group from the luncheon stop, along with lace and wooden decorations.  We were so touched to receive gifts from those who have so little.  We took group pictures again when we left and loaded back on the bus.

Back at the hotel, we were sternly told to stay in our rooms at night.  The police from the Department of Tourism stayed overnight right next to Katie and I.  The fact of the matter is that Guatemala is not so safe, particularly at night.  Katie and I had been somewhat disappointed to find out there was no alcohol in the hotel, but we settled in for a long talk before falling asleep.

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